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Domestic abuse
No relationship is perfect. We all argue and perhaps say things we don't necessarily mean to those closest to us, but there is a distinct difference between a disagreement and abusive behaviour.
Domestic abuse is any incident of threatening behaviour; this includes:
- Physical
- Emotional
- Psychological
- Sexual
- Financial
FACT - 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will be a victim of domestic abuse at some point in their lives.
FACT - 2 women a week and 30 men per year are murdered as a result of domestic abuse.
FACT - 1 in 9 children live with domestic abuse.
What can you do if you need help?
- If you feel you or someone close to you is in immediate danger ring 999.
- Have you thought about talking to someone? Perhaps a friend or someone you can trust. A teacher? A friend's parent? Your doctor? Or a neighbour?
- If you have a police officer who comes into your school/college you could discuss your situation with them. They will be able to provide help and advice.
- There are also people you can ring in complete confidence like Childline or NSPCC.
What if you think a friend needs help?
It is probably really difficult for your friend to talk about what is happening at home so try and be as supportive as you can. Listen to them but don't judge them. Try and offer them help, perhaps suggest that you go with them to speak to a trusted adult, try and look at advice websites, help lines and support groups together. There is a selection of these listed below.
The Hide Out
24-Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline - 0808 2000 247
Childline - 0800 1111 (freephone)
NSPCC - 0800 800 5000 (freephone)
Victim Support - 0845 30 30 900
